In your life you meet people who become friends, but some are short lived. The thing is you meet these people and get on the first time you meet them, you add them on facebook, you swap phone numbers and you have a few good nights out with them; and then something changes. You realise they are not your friends, but people you just happen to know. To truly call someone a friend, you need to at least have known them for more than a year and know that everytime you meet up nothing has changed. Okay, I am about to go on a mini rant that might not make much sense, so if you are not ready, leave now! I define friends as the special people in your life that make you smile, when you see them. Friends never talk behind your back and are completely comfortable to tell you straight if you happen to piss them off. What I can't be doing with is people bullshitting behind your back. I know I am not perfect, but the real friends in your life already know this. Also friends don't leave you stranded in the middle of nowhere; most of the time they are lost with you.
I have had many people in my life that have been friendly towards me, but in the end of it all, I cannot come to call them friends. I love it when people ask if you trust them and TBH I find it hard to trust people, because I somehow know that one day I will be stabbed in the back. There are really no nice people left in the world, everyone is out to gain power over each other. It's the shepard & sheep theory - everyone wants to be the sheapard and lead a heard of sheep - okay lets rephrase - people want to be in control and have follows they can puch around and have them do what they want to. I am a free spirit and no one has control over me. I will do and think for myself, have my own mind and follow my own heart.
People tend wonder why I fell out with them, it's basically because I cannot stand for putting up with their shit anymore. They say I am their friend, but really I was never a friend. One guy, said I was his gay gay bestfriend, but really I think he just needed a gay friend who he had not had sex with, where he had destroyed the relationship with each individual. It almost like they need some sort of clarity in their life, to believe that they are such a prick. Ouch! I'm a bit of a bitch! :P But then again I also destroyed any kind of friendship that may have arised by biting back! I won't say what I did, because you don't really need to know; but it wasn't too bad!
There are other people you believe have been sincere, but underneath they have bitched to other people about how annoying and then the truth comes out. True friends tell you everything, that's how you can call them BEST FRIENDS!
Some friends come and go, but when they go you are glad they are gone; and you really want them to stay the hell away. You wanna know why I deleted you from my life? The answer is very simple, friends do not bitch behind your back, they do not gossip and let the world know your troubles, they never let you down and they are always there for you when you need them the most!
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